Is she jealous of her little sister?

In the name of Allah; the Merciful; the Compassionate - بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَـٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ
May the peace, mercy, and blessings of Allah be with you - السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

Alhamdulillah, last Friday Muja's father took her to the PMH for ENT appointment. Masha Allah, this is the second time he brought her for an appointment alone without me. He wanted me to come but my c-section was still in pain and felt so weak to go around.

Since she is due for her soft tissues surgery next month, there is not much that can be done to her tonsil. Her tonsil will be reviewed in the next six months.

On the other hand we haven't decide whether to remove her tonsil or not. Poor thing. She is due for so many surgeries. Alhamdulillah, only her right tonsil is big but not swollen. Her sleeping is better but occasionally she wakes up in the middle of the night and can't go back to sleep until morning. Her breathing is still a concern though it's not as bad as before where she can hardly sleep at night.

Last time Muja's father took her to Naturopath for her tonsil. She prescribed her a herbal mix. I don't think that herbal is doing anything to her tonsil. I believe she needs a review. She is still taking Ant Tart 30 homeopathic remedy for wheezy breathing.

Alhamdulillah, her constipation got well with prune juice and cereal but before and after she open her bowel her tummy hurt. Alhamdulillah she is not taking the Movicol-half anymore since the prune juice works for her.

Guess who puts Muja to bed now? It is her father. Masha Allah, since Ramadan her father puts her sleep. He is doing a great job. She is having homeopathic remedies Arnica 30 for pain and Chamomilla 30 to calm her before sleep.

I suppose Muja kind of misses me. She can definitely sense that there is someone else taking her place from me. On Eid day when she visited her little sister for the first time at the hospital, she turn her face away from her little sister when I showed her to Muja. Is she jealous? I bet she is.

Comments

AKUOKU said…
light,tahniah untuk baby baru... alhamdulillah semuanya ok. annisa juga masa kelahiran annur pun begitu...sampai sekarang lebah demand dari annur..... lebih banyak kerenah dari annur.
uploadlah gambar baby baru tu... tahniah sekali lagi.
Sue.Aleen said…
Alhamdulillah on your new arrival.

Muja has been the center of family attention all this while, so when comes a new baby, she'll definitely feel something. Try to spend a special time to talk to her.

Anyway, Selamat Hari Raya, maaf zahir batin dari Syafiah dan keluarga :).
ummu said…
assalamualaikum Light
tahniah ye atas kedatangan oranag baru
Lightnur said…
Waalaikum salam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh sisters

Mama A & A - Terima kasih atas ucapan tahniah. Semoga Allah memberkahi mereka berdua, Annisa dan Annur serta semua anak2 terutamanya yang istimewa.

Suealeen

Thank you for your Hari Raya greeting and kind words. Insha Allah I will try to spend time with her. It is good though that since the new baby arrived, her father is closer to her. She is "anak abah" now.

ummu Masyitah - Terima kasih. Sila datang lagi ke lightnur.